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this is a discussion within the Everything Else Community Forum; After working as a dental assistant for ten years, Melissa Nelson was fired for being too "irresistible" and a "threat" to her employer's marriage. "I think it is completely wrong," Nelson said. "I think it is sending a message that ...

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Old 12-24-2012, 01:07 PM   #1
 
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Dental Assistant Fired For Being 'Irresistible' Is 'Devastated'

After working as a dental assistant for ten years, Melissa Nelson was fired for being too "irresistible" and a "threat" to her employer's marriage.

"I think it is completely wrong," Nelson said. "I think it is sending a message that men can do whatever they want in the work force."
On Friday, the all-male Iowa State Supreme Court ruled that James Knight, Nelson's boss, was within his legal rights when he fired her, affirming the decision of a lower court.
"We do think the Iowa Supreme Court got it completely right," said Stuart Cochrane, an attorney for James Knight. "Our position has always been Mrs. Nelson was never terminated because of her gender, she was terminated because of concerns her behavior was not appropriate in the workplace. She's an attractive lady. Dr. Knight found her behavior and dress to be inappropriate."
For Nelson, a 32-year-old married mother of two, the news of her firing and the rationale behind it came as a shock.
"I was very surprised after working so many years side by side I didn't have any idea that that would have crossed his mind," she said.
The two never had a sexual relationship or sought one, according to court documents, however in the final year and a half of Nelson's employment, Knight began to make comments about her clothing being too tight or distracting.
"Dr. Knight acknowledges he once told Nelson that if she saw his pants bulging, she would know her clothing was too revealing," the justices wrote.
Six months before Nelson was fired, she and her boss began exchanging text messages about work and personal matters, such as updates about each of their children's activities, the justices wrote.
The messages were mostly mundane, but Nelson recalled one text she received from her boss asking "how often she experienced an orgasm."
Nelson did not respond to the text and never indicated that she was uncomfortable with Knight's question, according to court documents.
Soon after, Knight's wife, Jeanne, who also works at the practice, found out about the text messaging and ordered her husband to fire Nelson.
The couple consulted with a senior pastor at their church and he agreed that Nelson should be terminated in order to protect their marriage, Cochrane said.
On Jan. 4, 2010, Nelson was summoned to a meeting with Knight while a pastor was present. Knight then read from a prepared statement telling Nelson she was fired.
"Dr. Knight felt like for the best interest of his marriage and the best interest of hers to end their employment relationship," Cochrane said.
Knight acknowledged in court documents that Nelson was good at her job and she, in turn, said she was generally treated with respect.
"I'm devastated. I really am," Nelson said.
When Nelson's husband tried to reason with Knight, the dentist told him he "feared he would have an affair with her down the road if he did not fire her."
Paige Fiedler, Nelson's attorney, said in a statement to ABC News affiliate KCRG that she was "appalled" by the ruling.
"We are appalled by the Court's ruling and its failure to understand the nature of gender bias.," she wrote.
"Although people act for a variety of reasons, it is very common for women to be targeted for discrimination because of their sexual attractiveness or supposed lack of sexual attractiveness. That is discrimination based on sex," Fiedler wrote. "Nearly every woman in Iowa understands this because we have experienced it for ourselves."


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Old 12-24-2012, 01:26 PM   #2
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Maybe his reasons for hiring her were the same?

Anyway, no surprise as labor laws are not very strictly upheld in the midwest. Almost all employment is considered at will.
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My wife's take is that the dentist made the hire decision and the wife made the fire decision.
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Well I can understand. I wouldn't wanna be in the dentist's chair with him poking his stiffy into my ribs.
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LOL Men LOL we all know he hired her
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I was at my buddies shop when day when a girl came in and asked if he was hiring. He said no, (he wasn't) and sent her on her way. He then turned to me and mentioned how he just saved himself from a sexual harassment law suit.

I think that's what this guy was more afraid of here. That and his wife.
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I was at my buddies shop when day when a girl came in and asked if he was hiring. He said no, (he wasn't) and sent her on her way. He then turned to me and mentioned how he just saved himself from a sexual harassment law suit.

I think that's what this guy was more afraid of here. That and his wife.
We have done the same thing. The lady looked like a young Sharon Stone, only hotter. We have some valuable old school employees that would easily fall into a harrassment trap and we'd get our ass sued off.
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We have done the same thing. The lady looked like a young Sharon Stone, only hotter. We have some valuable old school employees that would easily fall into a harrassment trap and we'd get our ass sued off.
Whoooaaa Danno .... that's a mighty vivid stiffly recollection that right here! LOL
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Whoooaaa Danno .... that's a mighty vivid stiffly recollection that right here! LOL



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