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Old 10-30-2011, 03:33 AM   #1
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My fiance attempted suicide. I found her on the bathroom floor cold and dead. she was revivved. I love her. not mentally equipped to handle her demons. Shes been in serious treatments ETC theropy and stuff for years. she sees professionalls nothing works. Im at a loss.
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Old 10-30-2011, 04:07 AM   #2
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Sometimes depression is no ones fault, its a physical problem that can't be solved dude. This is where they have to use medication , like a thyroid problem.
Sometimes its just a thought problem that can be corrected with love, understanding, and breaking walls. Like if she was raped or abused.
Its not that she doesn't love you, its that she doesn't love herself. If you love her , you can show her how special she is by what you see in her, and what she means to you. Ill tell you this is hard to do, you must truly love her unconditionally, and spend all your time with her, but when she trust you tells you the truth of what happened to her, it will end, but its a long road.
If its physical no one can solve it dude, sorry, she would need to be medicated for life.

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Old 10-30-2011, 04:15 AM   #3
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Sounds very serious. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
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Old 10-30-2011, 08:41 AM   #4
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Very sorry to hear of your struggle. I'm pretty familiar with it, to be honest.
I've got a beautiful, bright, daughter who has some demons of her own.

I'll be as close to God as possible this week; on a mountain, on the island of Kodiak, in Alaska. I'll put in a prayer for you and your woman.

One thing I know. YOU have to keep it together if your are going to be any help to her. We are born one at a time into this world. Whatever struggle we share after that moment starts with our ability to keep inner self whole before we can attempt to assist others.

Get her some help, but keep yourself whole, bro.

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Old 10-30-2011, 08:50 AM   #5
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I can't imagine how difficult this is. Hope things get better, take care.
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Old 10-30-2011, 08:57 AM   #6
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Sorry, Dude.
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Saying a prayer for your fiance, yourself, and family.
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Gotcha man.
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Good luck man... hope you guys can get through this. I had a close friend have his old lady blow her brains out a few months back... it's been a tough road for him. Surround yourself with close friends and family in tough times man. It'll help... prayers sent.
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Old 10-30-2011, 10:07 AM   #10
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I don't know what to say. Man that's got to hurt. Thank for posting this on the Saints Forum for maximum exposure. We all understand. This small prayer is for you, her and both families.

May The Lord bless you and keep you. May the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you. May the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace.
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