from what i know in louisiana, if the woman "claims" abuse, the man MUST go. friend of mine is NOPD (yea, wow, idiot, i know) but he says he has arrests like these all the time and there's nothing you can do other than fight it in court and waste more of your time.

I don't care what a woman does, you don't hit her! You kick her arse out, take away her kids or screw her momma but you don't hit her!

Oh well. At least it will take a while to all come together so hopefully he wont miss any time this year.

I was thinking the same thing. What a tangled web we weave...

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I am politely going to disagree. I think that is almost always the case, but if a woman raises her hand at a man then she has to expect she might get hit back. I am not advocating punching her, but she might get slapped. I don't care what a man does- a woman should keep her hands to herself equally.

Agreed. Woman can be every bit as violent as a man, and if a woman flies off the handle and comes after me with a pan or something I am gonna lay that ***** out. That being said, I dont put myself in the position to get involved with a woman who would do something like that, so I dont have to worry about it. If you are willing to stay in a relationship that has the potential to get that bad, you kind of bring it on yourself. There are plenty of warning signs before violence starts and there isnt any tang worth hanging with for that.

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You can disagree politely if you wanna but the best thing to do if your woman is wooping your arse, GET A NEW WOMAN!

Agreed- that is very true as far as the knowing not to stay in a relationship like that. I wouldn't lay her out lol, but I am certainly not going to be a punching bag