In many states (not sure about LA), if the police are called out on a domestic abuse call they are required to make an arrest, even with little or no evidence. This policy is meant to diffuse the situation before it escalates any further.

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I know one thing, when the police show up they don't just hook someone up and take them to jail on a he said she said deal. Not to mention this is not some random guy. The police probably knew who he was before they got there.

There has to be physical evidence to corroborate one or both parties stories. Then the police will take the aggressor to jail.

I'm not saying that what always happens, but that's what should always happen.

And I'm thinking if the police arrested a local icon like Junior, they know he'd have a good attorney because he has money, so they have to make sure there is a strong case on him before they ever arrest him.

No sir. They haul men off on "he said/she said" ALL the time. It happened to me.

14 years with my ex. The cops were never called, and they should have been, but it should have been ME calling, but I'm a man and I figure I can just walk away. I did. A thousand times plus 1.

She wants a divorce. I agree without argument. Over the course of the next 8 months she called the cops TWELVE TIMES, and on Christmas Eve 2013, she called them and manufactured yet another BS story...a cop on loan shows up, and I'm sure he see's this is the 12th time they've been called to my address in 8 months and makes a decision, based ABSOLUTELY on he said/she said, and cuffs me.

I said to him, "I can PROVE she's not telling you the truth. I can do it standing right here!"

"You'll have your day in court", he said.

So I'm sorry to tell you it happens. It happens ALL THE TIME. Physical evidence? hahahahaha. Are you kidding? None is required. All she has to do is pretend.

I will never be more grateful for the Judge in my case who appeared to see through the ex. "Sorry but you haven't proven this, at all. He can see his kids immediately. Today." I cried like a baby.

It is FAR FAR FAR too easy for these crazy women to absolutely ruin a man's life. The system is designed to accommodate them. And for whatever it might also be worth, Family Court is not about protecting the kids, and it sure as hell isn't about protecting the Dads. It is 1000% geared toward protecting women...at ALL costs. Politicians refuse to address it because they know they'd lose the vote of every crazy woman in the country, and fully TWO THIRDS of women in the United States take medication for their
mental health...TWO THIRDS...and that's just counting those we know about.

My mother AND my sister are victims of Domestic Violence. So nobody confuse me of condoning it, because I don't, but I get really worked up with all these "Save a ho" men piling on wanting to castrate someone because he gets arrested for domestic violence.

Oh, and one other thing. It's about 50/50 when it comes to who suffers most from domestic violence, and the men are gaining on the women.

WAKE UP and wait for the evidence, if there is any than can be proven.

/rant

Oh and not to discount you, but I hardly believe that 2/3 of women in the US are on medication for mental health.

Just my opinion, not that it matters.

Oh and not to discount you, but I hardly believe that 2/3 of women in the US are on medication for mental health.

Just my opinion, not that it matters.

Look it up. I just spend 20k (and still spending) on a lawyer. I spent another 10k on a Psych eval. I've done my homework. I am VERY serious about doing all I can do to shed some light on this.

People need to know. People like you need to know, and I mean no offense to you, but we live in a "save a ho" society, built BY DESIGN by women who want to have their cake and eat it too, aided by politicians willing to give them whatever they want for that almighty vote.

But people (psych professionals in particular) are starting to catch on. I'm hoping that by the time my son gets married he will not have to fear this kinda nonsense should his marriage go south. No one should.

Please do not dismiss because you simply don't have the information. Domestic Violence should not be tolerated. Neither should we allow woman to use it as a tool.

I know one thing, when the police show up they don't just hook someone up and take them to jail on a he said she said deal. Not to mention this is not some random guy. The police probably knew who he was before they got there.

There has to be physical evidence to corroborate one or both parties stories. Then the police will take the aggressor to jail.

I'm not saying that what always happens, but that's what should always happen.

And I'm thinking if the police arrested a local icon like Junior, they know he'd have a good attorney because he has money, so they have to make sure there is a strong case on him before they ever arrest him.

I don't know where you're from, but the police have no problem arresting people for he said, she said. Especially if it's a man vs woman case.

You're not even kidding. It's why I feel differently about Ray Rice too. She spits on him. Comes at him swinging. Now I'm not saying he should be allowed to drop that left hook on her like he did, but people have every right to defend themselves, or at least they should, but that simply isn't the case, and when a poor helpless little lady calls and starts acting like she's in fear for her life the cops could care less. It's sad.