This young man made a move on two women in his bed. It sounds like he didn't get aggressive and eventually took no for an answer. I'm not advocating making a woman say no twice but most good girls feel the need to say it once even if they're undressing themselves.

I teach women's self defense and No means No. You might try light non aggressive moves just to make sure but that is where any leniency stops!

Oh yeah, He looks like a good football player and we may have gotten lucky along with Granderson getting lucky ….just not that night.