R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg

SloMotion · 11-05-2013, 05:59 AM

Originally Posted by Crusader

Forget the racial slur for a moment, if anybody sends me texts like that saying they'll kill me I'd be contacting the police.

What I don't understand is why do you wait 6-7 months after receiving a text like that to do something about it? That right there is an open invitation to kick someone's arse ... if you're not comfortable doing that, at least forward it to your employer for action and/or like you said, the police.

Incognito is obviously a jerk, but WTH was going on with Martin that he couldn't take any sort of decisive action to address a serious issue like that?

exile · 11-05-2013, 11:06 AM

Originally Posted by SloMotion

What I don't understand is why do you wait 6-7 months after receiving a text like that to do something about it? T

Mental abuse can take months or even years to finally take its toll. Trust me, I know. I have been married for quite some time.

nola_swammi · 11-05-2013, 11:32 AM

Originally Posted by SloMotion

What I don't understand is why do you wait 6-7 months after receiving a text like that to do something about it?

Incognito is obviously a jerk, but WTH was going on with Martin that he couldn't take any sort of decisive action to address a serious issue like that?

It started his ROOKIE yr (last year). being a rookie you think the stuff was common. Sure he probably wanted to kick RI arse but RI was set in a leadership role and his teammates followed RI. Martin is still young and being put in a situation like that how do you respond to stuff like that. place yourself in his situation; age 23(maturity level) loner (no friends) and the pressure that ri was placing on you (cafeteria prank by teammates). All he did was remove himself from a bad enviroment and his agent stood up for him by reporting RI.

TheOak · 11-07-2013, 07:33 AM

Originally Posted by Crusader

Forget the racial slur for a moment, if anybody sends me texts like that saying they'll kill me I'd be contacting the police.

Pretty much how i see it... I could care less about a name that someone calls me. You threaten my mother, I am coming to your house.

QBREES9 · 11-09-2013, 10:28 PM

Originally Posted by TheOak

Pretty much how i see it... I could care less about a name that someone calls me. You threaten my mother, I am coming to your house.

Your right.

exile · 11-04-2013, 03:45 PM

He's done in Miami. Hopefully everywhere. Unfortunately I thought that the guy had turned a corner. Anyone else see the feature on NFLN on him? Painted him as a changed man. I guess not so much really. Interesting to see if any other Miami players get caught up in this as well.

"He's done," a ranking club source said Monday. "There are procedures in place and everyone wants to be fair. The NFL is involved. But from a club perspective he'll never play another game here."

Source: Incognito is 'done' on the Dolphins | Miami Dolphins In Depth

Shoe. · 11-04-2013, 04:19 PM

Seems like not much has changed with Richie. A real *** on the field, and apparently an even bigger one (and a lot more things) off of it.

SaintsBro · 11-05-2013, 11:04 AM

As is typically the case with people like this, the longer article reveals he has a laundry list of past incidents of aggression/violence/threats/bad behavior, prior to this, that were not properly addressed.

ETA @ SloMo -- apparently there was some kind of "lunchroom incident" last week, different from the messages, which prompted Martin to leave. Whatever that was.

lee909 · 11-05-2013, 11:43 AM

As you say he probably thought it was normal rookie year initiation pranks.Sounds like Incognito found a victim and just went after him knowing he would be backed up

SloMotion · 11-05-2013, 01:52 PM

Originally Posted by SaintsBro

As is typically the case with people like this, the longer article reveals he has a laundry list of past incidents of aggression/violence/threats/bad behavior, prior to this, that were not properly addressed.

ETA @ SloMo -- apparently there was some kind of "lunchroom incident" last week, different from the messages, which prompted Martin to leave. Whatever that was.

It's no secret the NFL employs violent, vile human beings, but yeah, it's not like the red flags weren't there with Incognito at Nebraska/Oregon, when he was at St. Louis, with Martin missing OTA's for personal reasons, et... For those reasons, I hold the Miami Dolphins organization just as culpable as Incognito in this ... you can't tell me someone didn't know what was going on. It's too bad none of Martin's teammates couldn't realize that it was getting out of hand and show some leadership by stepping in and addressing it. Incognito is probably some kind of 'roid-head as well, so you bring a few of your buddies if need be, but teammates don't let this kind of stuff go on.

Originally Posted by nola_swammi

It started his ROOKIE yr (last year). being a rookie you think the stuff was common. Sure he probably wanted to kick RI arse but RI was set in a leadership role and his teammates followed RI. Martin is still young and being put in a situation like that how do you respond to stuff like that. place yourself in his situation; age 23(maturity level) loner (no friends) and the pressure that ri was placing on you (cafeteria prank by teammates). All he did was remove himself from a bad enviroment and his agent stood up for him by reporting RI.

I've been in this situation a few times and I'm a firm believer that "people will do to you what you let them". Under no circumstances do you accept this type of abuse and you take your arse whippings (if need be) on/off the field until you make them respect you. I'm not getting snarky with you, but this ain't junior high school anymore and I'm kind of disappointed in a guy like Martin for not sticking up for himself, IMO.

The NFL is starting to really piss me off on quite a few levels ...

.

11-05-2013, 05:59 AM	#1
SloMotion 5000 POSTS! + Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 6,776 Blog Entries: 15	Re: R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg Originally Posted by Crusader Forget the racial slur for a moment, if anybody sends me texts like that saying they'll kill me I'd be contacting the police. What I don't understand is why do you wait 6-7 months after receiving a text like that to do something about it? That right there is an open invitation to kick someone's arse ... if you're not comfortable doing that, at least forward it to your employer for action and/or like you said, the police. Incognito is obviously a jerk, but WTH was going on with Martin that he couldn't take any sort of decisive action to address a serious issue like that? nola_swammi likes this.

11-05-2013, 11:06 AM	#2
exile Cake or Death? Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 3,608	Re: R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg Originally Posted by SloMotion What I don't understand is why do you wait 6-7 months after receiving a text like that to do something about it? T Mental abuse can take months or even years to finally take its toll. Trust me, I know. I have been married for quite some time. nola_swammi, Crusader, Barry from MS and 1 others like this.
exile Cake or Death? Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 3,608

11-05-2013, 11:32 AM	#3
nola_swammi 1000 Posts + Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Monroe, La Posts: 2,627	Re: R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg Originally Posted by SloMotion What I don't understand is why do you wait 6-7 months after receiving a text like that to do something about it? Incognito is obviously a jerk, but WTH was going on with Martin that he couldn't take any sort of decisive action to address a serious issue like that? It started his ROOKIE yr (last year). being a rookie you think the stuff was common. Sure he probably wanted to kick RI arse but RI was set in a leadership role and his teammates followed RI. Martin is still young and being put in a situation like that how do you respond to stuff like that. place yourself in his situation; age 23(maturity level) loner (no friends) and the pressure that ri was placing on you (cafeteria prank by teammates). All he did was remove himself from a bad enviroment and his agent stood up for him by reporting RI.

11-07-2013, 07:33 AM	#4
TheOak 10000 POST CLUB Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Cypress Tx. Posts: 19,043	Re: R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg Originally Posted by Crusader Forget the racial slur for a moment, if anybody sends me texts like that saying they'll kill me I'd be contacting the police. Pretty much how i see it... I could care less about a name that someone calls me. You threaten my mother, I am coming to your house.

11-09-2013, 10:28 PM	#5
QBREES9 Moderator Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: New Haven Ct Posts: 23,989	Re: R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg Originally Posted by TheOak Pretty much how i see it... I could care less about a name that someone calls me. You threaten my mother, I am coming to your house. Your right.

11-04-2013, 03:45 PM	#6
exile Cake or Death? Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 3,608	Re: R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg He's done in Miami. Hopefully everywhere. Unfortunately I thought that the guy had turned a corner. Anyone else see the feature on NFLN on him? Painted him as a changed man. I guess not so much really. Interesting to see if any other Miami players get caught up in this as well. "He's done," a ranking club source said Monday. "There are procedures in place and everyone wants to be fair. The NFL is involved. But from a club perspective he'll never play another game here." Source: Incognito is 'done' on the Dolphins \| Miami Dolphins In Depth nola_swammi likes this.
exile Cake or Death? Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 3,608	One thing I learned from drinking. You should always go Christmas caroling with a group. Oh, and always in mid-December. Last edited by exile; 11-04-2013 at 04:20 PM..

11-04-2013, 04:19 PM	#7
Shoe. 500th Post Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Hub City Posts: 576	Re: R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg Seems like not much has changed with Richie. A real *** on the field, and apparently an even bigger one (and a lot more things) off of it. nola_swammi likes this.

11-05-2013, 11:04 AM	#8
SaintsBro Site Donor Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: in line with my ridiculous CLEAR PLASTIC BAG Posts: 3,650 Blog Entries: 3	Re: R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg As is typically the case with people like this, the longer article reveals he has a laundry list of past incidents of aggression/violence/threats/bad behavior, prior to this, that were not properly addressed. ETA @ SloMo -- apparently there was some kind of "lunchroom incident" last week, different from the messages, which prompted Martin to leave. Whatever that was. nola_swammi likes this.

11-05-2013, 11:43 AM	#9
lee909 5000 POSTS! + Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Watford England Posts: 8,855 Blog Entries: 1	Re: R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg As you say he probably thought it was normal rookie year initiation pranks.Sounds like Incognito found a victim and just went after him knowing he would be backed up nola_swammi likes this.

11-05-2013, 01:52 PM	#10
SloMotion 5000 POSTS! + Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 6,776 Blog Entries: 15	Re: R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg Originally Posted by SaintsBro As is typically the case with people like this, the longer article reveals he has a laundry list of past incidents of aggression/violence/threats/bad behavior, prior to this, that were not properly addressed. ETA @ SloMo -- apparently there was some kind of "lunchroom incident" last week, different from the messages, which prompted Martin to leave. Whatever that was. It's no secret the NFL employs violent, vile human beings, but yeah, it's not like the red flags weren't there with Incognito at Nebraska/Oregon, when he was at St. Louis, with Martin missing OTA's for personal reasons, et... For those reasons, I hold the Miami Dolphins organization just as culpable as Incognito in this ... you can't tell me someone didn't know what was going on. It's too bad none of Martin's teammates couldn't realize that it was getting out of hand and show some leadership by stepping in and addressing it. Incognito is probably some kind of 'roid-head as well, so you bring a few of your buddies if need be, but teammates don't let this kind of stuff go on. Originally Posted by nola_swammi It started his ROOKIE yr (last year). being a rookie you think the stuff was common. Sure he probably wanted to kick RI arse but RI was set in a leadership role and his teammates followed RI. Martin is still young and being put in a situation like that how do you respond to stuff like that. place yourself in his situation; age 23(maturity level) loner (no friends) and the pressure that ri was placing on you (cafeteria prank by teammates). All he did was remove himself from a bad enviroment and his agent stood up for him by reporting RI. I've been in this situation a few times and I'm a firm believer that "people will do to you what you let them". Under no circumstances do you accept this type of abuse and you take your arse whippings (if need be) on/off the field until you make them respect you. I'm not getting snarky with you, but this ain't junior high school anymore and I'm kind of disappointed in a guy like Martin for not sticking up for himself, IMO. The NFL is starting to really piss me off on quite a few levels ... . nola_swammi and OldMaid like this.

LinkBacks (?) LinkBack to this Thread: https://blackandgold.com/nfl/61650-r-incognito-miami-dolphin-scum-mssg.html
Posted By	For	Type	Date	Hits
R incognito (Miami Dolphin scum) mssg	This thread	Refback	11-04-2013 01:20 PM	67