You're not even kidding. It's why I feel differently about Ray Rice too. She spits on him. Comes at him swinging. Now I'm not saying he should be allowed to drop that left hook on her like he did, but people have every right to defend themselves, or at least they should, but that simply isn't the case, and when a poor helpless little lady calls and starts acting like she's in fear for her life the cops could care less. It's sad.