Your wife is a loser.

Let me tell you flat out- if a black person used that word at work I would have them fired for it because I would be offended. If he wasn't I would sue in heart beat. I would teach anyone in this country that they will be held to an equal standard, period. Guess what- he would lose his job as fast as a white person

And I don't believe for a second you'd be offended. That's just you being a dick and trying to teach a group of people a lesson about something that if it was just respected, wouldn't be a problem.

We know amongst each other not to say it at work, mainly because of people who take up that type of attitude. Don't call that mans wife a loser. That's disrespectful and unnecessary. I see why you have trouble grasping the concept.