Happy New Year to all Who Dats!

Boston Saint · 01-01-2022, 11:19 AM

Originally Posted by neugey

My new year began with me moving to kiss my wife at the stroke of midnight. As our lips touched she jerked away and told me she wanted to finish watching a TV episode. Tried to break the ice with her by talking about wishes and goals I had for us in the new year and asking what she was looking forward to. She had no replies and it was in one ear and out the other and it was all looking away from me. All attempts at intimacy were summarily rejected when we got into bed. The night ended with my voice cracking and tears in my eyes pleading to hear "what am I doing wrong?" and "what's wrong with me". She somehow manage to let out a soft "sorry" while facing the wall. That is how the night ended. Well for her - I only had 5 minutes of sleep.

She is completely checked out. I see very little chance in things turning around. My new years resolution is to put my dick in another woman in 2022 - and if my current wife finds out, then so be it.

Try to stay strong neugey. Maybe you aren’t doing anything wrong at all. Hoping and praying for you and your family.

neugey · 01-01-2022, 11:34 AM

Thanks everyone for your very kind words. I would not post things like this if I did not have a great confidence in the quality of our online community.

I read Boston Saints's signature quote, and I wonder if Mora is talking about my marital situation.

jnormand · 01-01-2022, 12:04 PM

I'm just glad New Years Eve is over. Yesterday was a 19 hour day that started at 6 am and ended after 1 am this morning. Cold ass weather, wrecks, slide offs and drunks.

I'm just glad it's over!

Happy New Year everyone!

RailBoss · 01-01-2022, 12:20 PM

Happy New Year.. New Years resolution is simple to find a QB for the New Orleans Saints.

Boston Saint · 01-01-2022, 12:24 PM

Originally Posted by neugey

Thanks everyone for your very kind words. I would not post things like this if I did not have a great confidence in the quality of our online community.

I read Boston Saints's signature quote, and I wonder if Mora is talking about my marital situation.

My pop (almost 90) slaps me with that quote reminder frequently. It’s an important philosophical idea I believe in. It goes back to ancient Greece Philosophy which makes you able to question everything you think you know.

But that doesn’t have to be a bad thing! it can be looked at as the mind’s ability to be open to new ideas, yet still grounded in certain realities our world
is based in. I even use it as a reminder of my spiritual beliefs because the idea that you “don’t know” is a part of accepting your place in God’s plan.

Sorry to philosophize in front of everyone. Point is, as dark as things feel now, things WILL go on. Try to think of the possibilities of the future unknown rather than destroying yourself about the unknowns of the past. My sister is going through a similar thing right now with her husband. That’s what I tell her when we talk.

saintfan · 01-01-2022, 12:34 PM

Originally Posted by Boston Saint

My pop (almost 90) slaps me with that quote reminder frequently. It’s an important philosophical idea I believe in. It goes back to ancient Greece Philosophy which makes you able to question everything you think you know.

But that doesn’t have to be a bad thing! it can be looked at as the mind’s ability to be open to new ideas, yet still grounded in certain realities our world
is based in. I even use it as a reminder of my spiritual beliefs because the idea that you “don’t know” is a part of accepting your place in God’s plan.

Sorry to philosophize in front of everyone. Point is, as dark as things feel now, things WILL go on. Try to think of the possibilities of the future unknown rather than destroying yourself about the unknowns of the past. My sister is going through a similar thing right now with her husband. That’s what I tell her when we talk.

My grandpa would always say in a very comforting way, "it'll be alright after while."

It always is...alright after while.

Boston Saint · 01-01-2022, 12:54 PM

Originally Posted by saintfan

My grandpa would always say in a very comforting way, "it'll be alright after while."

It always is...alright after while.

That’s the time heals all wounds idea. It’s sound.

RailBoss · 01-01-2022, 01:14 PM

Or alright for a while..

Roy Orbison - Crying - YouTube

neugey · 01-01-2022, 01:57 PM

Originally Posted by RailBoss

Or alright for a while..
Roy Orbison - Crying - YouTube

BUDDY GUY - My Time After A while (1969) - YouTube

iceshack149 · 01-01-2022, 02:15 PM

Happy New Year, everyone!
Sorry about what you're going through, Neugey. Keep in mind that you can't change her. You can only change you.

I'll be praying for you.

01-01-2022, 11:19 AM	#11
Boston Saint 1000 Posts + Join Date: Nov 2020 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 4,868	Re: Happy New Year to all Who Dats! Originally Posted by neugey My new year began with me moving to kiss my wife at the stroke of midnight. As our lips touched she jerked away and told me she wanted to finish watching a TV episode. Tried to break the ice with her by talking about wishes and goals I had for us in the new year and asking what she was looking forward to. She had no replies and it was in one ear and out the other and it was all looking away from me. All attempts at intimacy were summarily rejected when we got into bed. The night ended with my voice cracking and tears in my eyes pleading to hear "what am I doing wrong?" and "what's wrong with me". She somehow manage to let out a soft "sorry" while facing the wall. That is how the night ended. Well for her - I only had 5 minutes of sleep. She is completely checked out. I see very little chance in things turning around. My new years resolution is to put my dick in another woman in 2022 - and if my current wife finds out, then so be it. Try to stay strong neugey. Maybe you aren’t doing anything wrong at all. Hoping and praying for you and your family. jnormand, neugey and leilung like this.

01-01-2022, 11:34 AM	#12
neugey Hu Dat! Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 6,590 Blog Entries: 13	Re: Happy New Year to all Who Dats! Thanks everyone for your very kind words. I would not post things like this if I did not have a great confidence in the quality of our online community. I read Boston Saints's signature quote, and I wonder if Mora is talking about my marital situation. leilung, dizzle88 and Boston Saint like this.

01-01-2022, 12:04 PM	#13
jnormand 5000 POSTS! + Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: The Free State of Idaho Posts: 5,530	Re: Happy New Year to all Who Dats! I'm just glad New Years Eve is over. Yesterday was a 19 hour day that started at 6 am and ended after 1 am this morning. Cold ass weather, wrecks, slide offs and drunks. I'm just glad it's over! Happy New Year everyone! iceshack149, neugey, leilung and 2 others like this.

01-01-2022, 12:20 PM	#14
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01-01-2022, 12:24 PM	#15
Boston Saint 1000 Posts + Join Date: Nov 2020 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 4,868	Re: Happy New Year to all Who Dats! Originally Posted by neugey Thanks everyone for your very kind words. I would not post things like this if I did not have a great confidence in the quality of our online community. I read Boston Saints's signature quote, and I wonder if Mora is talking about my marital situation. My pop (almost 90) slaps me with that quote reminder frequently. It’s an important philosophical idea I believe in. It goes back to ancient Greece Philosophy which makes you able to question everything you think you know. But that doesn’t have to be a bad thing! it can be looked at as the mind’s ability to be open to new ideas, yet still grounded in certain realities our world is based in. I even use it as a reminder of my spiritual beliefs because the idea that you “don’t know” is a part of accepting your place in God’s plan. Sorry to philosophize in front of everyone. Point is, as dark as things feel now, things WILL go on. Try to think of the possibilities of the future unknown rather than destroying yourself about the unknowns of the past. My sister is going through a similar thing right now with her husband. That’s what I tell her when we talk. neugey likes this.
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01-01-2022, 12:34 PM	#16
saintfan Donated Plasma Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: San Francisco, CA Posts: 18,556 Blog Entries: 5	Re: Happy New Year to all Who Dats! Originally Posted by Boston Saint My pop (almost 90) slaps me with that quote reminder frequently. It’s an important philosophical idea I believe in. It goes back to ancient Greece Philosophy which makes you able to question everything you think you know. But that doesn’t have to be a bad thing! it can be looked at as the mind’s ability to be open to new ideas, yet still grounded in certain realities our world is based in. I even use it as a reminder of my spiritual beliefs because the idea that you “don’t know” is a part of accepting your place in God’s plan. Sorry to philosophize in front of everyone. Point is, as dark as things feel now, things WILL go on. Try to think of the possibilities of the future unknown rather than destroying yourself about the unknowns of the past. My sister is going through a similar thing right now with her husband. That’s what I tell her when we talk. My grandpa would always say in a very comforting way, "it'll be alright after while." It always is...alright after while. leilung, K Major and Boston Saint like this.

01-01-2022, 12:54 PM	#17
Boston Saint 1000 Posts + Join Date: Nov 2020 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 4,868	Re: Happy New Year to all Who Dats! Originally Posted by saintfan My grandpa would always say in a very comforting way, "it'll be alright after while." It always is...alright after while. That’s the time heals all wounds idea. It’s sound. saintfan likes this.

01-01-2022, 02:15 PM	#20
iceshack149 1000 Posts + Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Fairbanks, AK Posts: 4,085 Blog Entries: 1	Re: Happy New Year to all Who Dats! Happy New Year, everyone! Sorry about what you're going through, Neugey. Keep in mind that you can't change her. You can only change you. I'll be praying for you. neugey likes this.

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