Woulda coulda shoulda suicide note

SaintFanInATLHELL · 09-13-2024, 01:18 PM

I feel you pain being in such a tough situation.

First and foremost your family needs you here. You have to know that even if you were out on the street penniless that your wife and daughter would want to be with you. You have to find a way to stay strong for them. They need you and you need them. If you believe nothing else believe that.

We are proud that you didn't give in to the bottle. Keep that strength and use it to get through this.

If you can find the energy, you should take the advice to find someone to talk to. Sometimes just getting a different perspective from a cooler head can be enough to get back on track.

As for the interview Monday, I suggest taking it. I know all the closed doors are frustrating. But it only takes one open door to move forward.

Now given that let's get to work solving some of your listed problems.

You gave two specific items on your list: College loans and the dead tree. This is a financial emergency. Neither of those items are important in the face of the current situation. Many of us feel that we must take care of all our bills at all cost. But right now, you have to put a pin on that loan. You must have shelter before you can move forward with anything else. As you have pointed out, that loan will still be there when you get back to it.

Same with the tree. Until the local government puts a notice on your door condemning the house for the tree, leave it alone.

If you wish to share, a few pieces of information would be helpful. First is what general area are you located? It may be possible for one of us to come out and try to help. Next is what type of business do you work in, and what type of startup do you have? One of the places one of us may be able to help is with networking opportunities, which are often used to move folks forward.

For the short term would you consider setting up/accepting a GoFundMe? That would give anyone where who wants to help an opportunity to contribute. And again that could be an additional networking opportunity.

If you have the time, we do live in a gig economy. Many folks close the gap by picking up gigs to make extra funds. Even if it's temporary, it may help getting through this.

You are not out of moves. Not by a long shot. I know it took great courage to come and talk about your situation. Many would not have done it.

We are all here to help. Continue to reach out. Collectively we can help get you through this.

SFIAH

09-13-2024, 01:18 PM	#11
SaintFanInATLHELL The Professor Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Lithonia, GA Posts: 2,783	Re: Woulda coulda shoulda suicide note I feel you pain being in such a tough situation. First and foremost your family needs you here. You have to know that even if you were out on the street penniless that your wife and daughter would want to be with you. You have to find a way to stay strong for them. They need you and you need them. If you believe nothing else believe that. We are proud that you didn't give in to the bottle. Keep that strength and use it to get through this. If you can find the energy, you should take the advice to find someone to talk to. Sometimes just getting a different perspective from a cooler head can be enough to get back on track. As for the interview Monday, I suggest taking it. I know all the closed doors are frustrating. But it only takes one open door to move forward. Now given that let's get to work solving some of your listed problems. You gave two specific items on your list: College loans and the dead tree. This is a financial emergency. Neither of those items are important in the face of the current situation. Many of us feel that we must take care of all our bills at all cost. But right now, you have to put a pin on that loan. You must have shelter before you can move forward with anything else. As you have pointed out, that loan will still be there when you get back to it. Same with the tree. Until the local government puts a notice on your door condemning the house for the tree, leave it alone. If you wish to share, a few pieces of information would be helpful. First is what general area are you located? It may be possible for one of us to come out and try to help. Next is what type of business do you work in, and what type of startup do you have? One of the places one of us may be able to help is with networking opportunities, which are often used to move folks forward. For the short term would you consider setting up/accepting a GoFundMe? That would give anyone where who wants to help an opportunity to contribute. And again that could be an additional networking opportunity. If you have the time, we do live in a gig economy. Many folks close the gap by picking up gigs to make extra funds. Even if it's temporary, it may help getting through this. You are not out of moves. Not by a long shot. I know it took great courage to come and talk about your situation. Many would not have done it. We are all here to help. Continue to reach out. Collectively we can help get you through this. SFIAH iceshack149, jnormand, Danno and 8 others like this.
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