Prayers needed

The Dude · 10-30-2011, 04:33 AM

My fiance attempted suicide. I found her on the bathroom floor cold and dead. she was revivved. I love her. not mentally equipped to handle her demons. Shes been in serious treatments ETC theropy and stuff for years. she sees professionalls nothing works. Im at a loss.

pherein · 10-30-2011, 05:07 AM

Sometimes depression is no ones fault, its a physical problem that can't be solved dude. This is where they have to use medication , like a thyroid problem.
Sometimes its just a thought problem that can be corrected with love, understanding, and breaking walls. Like if she was raped or abused.
Its not that she doesn't love you, its that she doesn't love herself. If you love her , you can show her how special she is by what you see in her, and what she means to you. Ill tell you this is hard to do, you must truly love her unconditionally, and spend all your time with her, but when she trust you tells you the truth of what happened to her, it will end, but its a long road.
If its physical no one can solve it dude, sorry, she would need to be medicated for life.

Ill prey for her, and you

Saint_LB · 10-30-2011, 05:15 AM

Sounds very serious. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

AlaskaSaints · 10-30-2011, 09:41 AM

Very sorry to hear of your struggle. I'm pretty familiar with it, to be honest.
I've got a beautiful, bright, daughter who has some demons of her own.

I'll be as close to God as possible this week; on a mountain, on the island of Kodiak, in Alaska. I'll put in a prayer for you and your woman.

One thing I know. YOU have to keep it together if your are going to be any help to her. We are born one at a time into this world. Whatever struggle we share after that moment starts with our ability to keep inner self whole before we can attempt to assist others.

Get her some help, but keep yourself whole, bro.

Alaska

neugey · 10-30-2011, 09:50 AM

I can't imagine how difficult this is. Hope things get better, take care.

jcp026 · 10-30-2011, 09:57 AM

Sorry, Dude.

FrankTheRat · 10-30-2011, 10:37 AM

Saying a prayer for your fiance, yourself, and family.

Cory9289 · 10-30-2011, 10:37 AM

Gotcha man.

papz · 10-30-2011, 10:54 AM

Good luck man... hope you guys can get through this. I had a close friend have his old lady blow her brains out a few months back... it's been a tough road for him. Surround yourself with close friends and family in tough times man. It'll help... prayers sent.

foreverfan · 10-30-2011, 11:07 AM

I don't know what to say. Man that's got to hurt. Thank for posting this on the Saints Forum for maximum exposure. We all understand. This small prayer is for you, her and both families.

May The Lord bless you and keep you. May the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you. May the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace.

10-30-2011, 04:33 AM	#1
The Dude 5000 POSTS! + Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 9,050	Prayers needed My fiance attempted suicide. I found her on the bathroom floor cold and dead. she was revivved. I love her. not mentally equipped to handle her demons. Shes been in serious treatments ETC theropy and stuff for years. she sees professionalls nothing works. Im at a loss.
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10-30-2011, 05:07 AM	#2
pherein failclownHunter Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: N.O. and V.A. Posts: 2,260 Blog Entries: 3	Sometimes depression is no ones fault, its a physical problem that can't be solved dude. This is where they have to use medication , like a thyroid problem. Sometimes its just a thought problem that can be corrected with love, understanding, and breaking walls. Like if she was raped or abused. Its not that she doesn't love you, its that she doesn't love herself. If you love her , you can show her how special she is by what you see in her, and what she means to you. Ill tell you this is hard to do, you must truly love her unconditionally, and spend all your time with her, but when she trust you tells you the truth of what happened to her, it will end, but its a long road. If its physical no one can solve it dude, sorry, she would need to be medicated for life. Ill prey for her, and you
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10-30-2011, 05:15 AM	#3
Saint_LB Deuce Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,894	Sounds very serious. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
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10-30-2011, 09:41 AM	#4
AlaskaSaints 1000 Posts + Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Anchorage, AK Posts: 2,484 Blog Entries: 2	Very sorry to hear of your struggle. I'm pretty familiar with it, to be honest. I've got a beautiful, bright, daughter who has some demons of her own. I'll be as close to God as possible this week; on a mountain, on the island of Kodiak, in Alaska. I'll put in a prayer for you and your woman. One thing I know. YOU have to keep it together if your are going to be any help to her. We are born one at a time into this world. Whatever struggle we share after that moment starts with our ability to keep inner self whole before we can attempt to assist others. Get her some help, but keep yourself whole, bro. Alaska Belair57 likes this.
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neugey Hu Dat! Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 6,715 Blog Entries: 13	I can't imagine how difficult this is. Hope things get better, take care.

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10-30-2011, 10:54 AM	#9
papz Problem? Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: New Orleans Posts: 11,754	Good luck man... hope you guys can get through this. I had a close friend have his old lady blow her brains out a few months back... it's been a tough road for him. Surround yourself with close friends and family in tough times man. It'll help... prayers sent.

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foreverfan 12,000 BS Posts Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Metairie, LA Posts: 13,457 Blog Entries: 5	I don't know what to say. Man that's got to hurt. Thank for posting this on the Saints Forum for maximum exposure. We all understand. This small prayer is for you, her and both families. May The Lord bless you and keep you. May the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you. May the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace. Belair57 likes this.

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