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Old 02-06-2022, 12:20 AM   #1
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Old 02-06-2022, 01:11 AM   #2
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Here we are, a three page post all about Guido. He is eating up every minute of it because he’s getting the attention he’s been seeking for years. Makes him feel very important.
He has been much better as far as the negative, antagonistic, and belittling comments now that SF has castrated him. SF has done his job. At this point it’s probably just giving Guido attention. Guido says he has SF on ignore but he’s full of ****. He may use the ignore function but his ego won’t let him keep it on. He hits refresh over and over to make sure he is the topic of conversation so he can prop up his self esteem. If it were me I would wait until Guido slips up and then start calling him out on it immediately.
And I agree with the sentiment that what SF does is just a very small dose of the crap we all have had to endure from Guido for years.

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Old 02-06-2022, 01:43 AM   #3
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Originally Posted by The Dude View Post
Here we are, a three page post all about Guido. He is eating up every minute of it because he’s getting the attention he’s been seeking for years. Makes him feel very important.
He has been much better as far as the negative, antagonistic, and belittling comments now that SF has castrated him. SF has done his job. At this point it’s probably just giving Guido attention. Guido says he has SF on ignore but he’s full of ****. He may use the ignore function but his ego won’t let him keep it on. He hits refresh over and over to make sure he is the topic of conversation so he can prop up his self esteem. If it were me I would wait until Guido slips up and then start calling him out on it immediately.
And I agree with the sentiment that what SF does is just a very small dose of the crap we all have had to endure from Guido for years.
If I wasn't well-versed with people with NPD I might feel sorry for him, but that's a waste of time - he has no soul. He lives in a fake world made up by him to suit his own self, everyone else be damned. Any decency he may display is purely to feed his own ego. That's why he saddles up next to anyone who offers him a bone and tries to make 'allies' on the internet pitting one against the other - a passive-aggressive proxy fight. He will tell you exactly what you want to hear if he thinks it will help him, and when he's challenged in any way he becomes the protagonist in his own little play in his warped head. What's amazing about NPD is that even though he's confronted with the very thing he denies, right in front of his face on his computer, he STILL can't see it.

Any bs "apology" is a means to a narcissistic end. The limited support he's been getting is like pouring fuel on the fire, and even in those cases it is acknowledged by those people that he "rubs people the wrong way", which is a gross understatement. And still he can't stop.

He will sign his own death warrant in time so long as the pressure continues to be applied, but he will likely never see his own issues. Stopping now would only give him the sensation that he's weathered the storm and empower him to return to his old behavior. That's how he sees himself as "winning", and he must win. To him its like a drug.

He claims to love this place, but clearly he loves himself more. N.P.D.

I don't know who you are speedo, but I know WHAT you are little man, and you know I know, and it's driving you crazy ain't it? Good.

Hillary was right after all. It takes a village. Bleh...now I've gotta go wash my mouth out with soap...


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Old 02-06-2022, 02:32 AM   #4
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If I wasn't well-versed with people with NPD I might feel sorry for him, but that's a waste of time - he has no soul. He lives in a fake world made up by him to suit his own self, everyone else be damned. Any decency he may display is purely to feed his own ego. That's why he saddles up next to anyone who offers him a bone and tries to make 'allies' on the internet pitting one against the other - a passive-aggressive proxy fight. He will tell you exactly what you want to hear if he thinks it will help him, and when he's challenged in any way he becomes the protagonist in his own little play in his warped head. What's amazing about NPD is that even though he's confronted with the very thing he denies, right in front of his face on his computer, he STILL can't see it.

Any bs "apology" is a means to a narcissistic end. The limited support he's been getting is like pouring fuel on the fire, and even in those cases it is acknowledged by those people that he "rubs people the wrong way", which is a gross understatement. And still he can't stop.

He will sign his own death warrant in time so long as the pressure continues to be applied, but he will likely never see his own issues. Stopping now would only give him the sensation that he's weathered the storm and empower him to return to his old behavior. That's how he sees himself as "winning", and he must win. To him its like a drug.

He claims to love this place, but clearly he loves himself more. N.P.D.

I don't know who you are speedo, but I know WHAT you are little man, and you know I know, and it's driving you crazy ain't it? Good.

Hillary was right after all. It takes a village. Bleh...now I've gotta go wash my mouth out with soap...

Saw a pic of him once posing with Streif who I’m sure Guido tried to wow with knowledge. Guido was all high on this lineman we picked up, can’t remember the name. He swore up and down this dude would be a stud and slammed anyone who thought otherwise. I don’t think he even made the team.
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Old 02-06-2022, 09:03 AM   #5
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MY EXPERIENCE WITH HIM:

I don't even remember what the thread was about but I dared to play "Devil's Advocate" and offer an alternative take. I was chastised by him on the forum as well as in a personal message( containing many backhanded compliments) for "Not considering my audience" and how the casual fan who should stumble on my response would take it as the "TRUTH". In spite of the fact that his favorite XM Show Moving The Chains hosts Pat Kirwan and Jim Miller routinely play devil's advocate. My response to that was anyone who takes anything posted here as the truth without doing their own research should turn in their Fan Card.

In other posts he babbled on about how he couldn't remember the last time he was wrong. Using his own posts I tried to show him the error of his ways. For my trouble all I got was the eye roll and his diagnoses that I was mentally ill.

He's as clever as he is annoying notice the disclaimer about an incoming coach keeping the existing defensive coordinator. "To my knowledge no incoming head coach has kept the DC from the previous staff." A quick Google search would have helped his remark. I live in Indy now and know all it took was look no further than Frank Reich HC of the Colts who was hired after Josh McDaniels left them at the altar. McDaniels had hired three coaches. The DC Matt Eberflus now Bears Head Coach as well as the other two were kept by Reich. Yet other members comment on his supplying so much informative information?

It's arrogance like that which has gotten under the skin of so many. He is this forums version of Whack A Mole, you can land your shots but he keeps POPPING UP AND OFF.

Until YOU are the victim of one of his attacks you can't understand the frustration he can generate.

He may very well be a "nice guy" in person but that doesn't justify his actions on this forum.

Mr. Know It All doesn't and when he knows he doesn't he'll never admit it.

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Old 02-06-2022, 09:56 AM   #6
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Originally Posted by vpheughan View Post
MY EXPERIENCE WITH HIM:

I don't even remember what the thread was about but I dared to play "Devil's Advocate" and offer an alternative take. I was chastised by him on the forum as well as in a personal message( containing many backhanded compliments) for "Not considering my audience" and how the casual fan who should stumble on my response would take it as the "TRUTH". In spite of the fact that his favorite XM Show Moving The Chains hosts Pat Kirwan and Jim Miller routinely play devil's advocate. My response to that was anyone who takes anything posted here as the truth without doing their own research should turn in their Fan Card.

In other posts he babbled on about how he couldn't remember the last time he was wrong. Using his own posts I tried to show him the error of his ways. For my trouble all I got was the eye roll and his diagnoses that I was mentally ill.

He's as clever as he is annoying notice the disclaimer about an incoming coach keeping the existing defensive coordinator. "To my knowledge no incoming head coach has kept the DC from the previous staff." A quick Google search would have helped his remark. I live in Indy now and know all it took was look no further than Frank Reich HC of the Colts who was hired after Josh McDaniels left them at the altar. McDaniels had hired three coaches. The DC Matt Eberflus now Bears Head Coach as well as the other two were kept by Reich. Yet other members comment on his supplying so much informative information?

It's arrogance like that which has gotten under the skin of so many. He is this forums version of Whack A Mole, you can land your shots but he keeps POPPING UP AND OFF.

Until YOU are the victim of one of his attacks you can't understand the frustration he can generate.

He may very well be a "nice guy" in person but that doesn't justify his actions on this forum.

Mr. Know It All doesn't and when he knows he doesn't he'll never admit it.
My ex wife is as evil as Hitler - but she has 'friends' who are loyal to her because (a) she turns that on when she needs to, and she's very good at it and (b) they likely have a little bit of evil in them too. Like minds, and all that jazz.

She didn't fool the judge though, because judges are trained to see it. I was educated by our evaluator during the custody eval. I learned some enlightening things. I have been trained to see it too. Sadly, I see it in a lot of people.

Everything you just described, everything everyone else has described, and my own personal experience with speedo points to NPD. It is a mental health disorder, and with all my tongue in cheekieness, speedo really should be in therapy. These things are deep rooted.

You can ignore them after the divorce, but not until because they won't leave you alone. They enjoy the misery they produce. They crave it. It gives them a feeling of power, to effect another person in that way.

Speedo claims to love this place, and I'm sure he does, but not because he's part of a community of people who love the Saints - no this is where he comes to play radio host. This is where he comes to feed off others - to bolster his ego and any expense.

Funny how he's denied race-baiting here over and over again while at the same time race baiting over and over again.

Maybe this thread will be a place where others come to share their experiences with him. Maybe there are younger people on this board who don't yet have the life experiences of dealing with NPD. Possibly they'll find it helpful as in, oh yeah, I know a guy at work who is simply unreasonable.

Once you let these people in your life it can be extremely difficult to purge them.

Happy to see others sharing their experience, and not because I'm trying to 'win' anything. I just want him to stop, and as it has been observed he hasn't been attacking anyone lately. Instead he's being sweet as syrup to everyone because he wants them on 'his side' - again, trying to turn this into a me vs him thing which it is not.

Keeping the pressure on him is how to stop that particular issue. Let him keep attacking me. He will sway the views of a few. He's not the only NPD in the room sad to say, but no more race baiting. Not much I can do on his practice of flooding the board with stupid tweets. He's been called out by a few for this - hopefully more will step up and voice their opinions, because his ONLY response at this point will be an apology - fake as his apologies are, but he won't be attacking them anymore. I guess that means that, despite the drama it's caused, it's working.
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I get the premise of what's going on here, but this back and forth, from 2 Members that I'd rather not set to Ignore, is getting real tiresome now.

There's something to be said for not stooping to a troublemakers level, its getting extremely childish.

I visit this forum to read interesting articles, news and discuss with other fans. I deleted Twitter due to the toxic people masked as Saints fan with an alternative agenda of attacking each other. Its sad to see a place I enjoy coming to daily, turning into what Saints Twitter became.

I'm close to taking a few months away from this site now, which is a shame because 98% of us get on day to day.

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I get the premise of what's going on here, but this back and forth, from 2 Members that I'd rather not set to Ignore, is getting real tiresome now.

There's something to be said for not stooping to a troublemakers level, its getting extremely childish.

I visit this forum to read interesting articles, news and discuss with other fans. I deleted Twitter due to the toxic people masked as Saints fan with an alternative agenda of attacking each other. Its sad to see a place I enjoy coming to daily, turning into what Saints Twitter became.

I'm close to taking a few months away from this site now, which is a shame because 98% of us get on day to day.
I blocked saintsfan some time ago because of this incessant crap! Now I have to see posters quoting him and asking for him politely to "Let It Go". Unfortunately, he would rather run everybody off rather than stopping his aggressive agenda against other members. I spend less and less time on here because of this nonstop discourse which is a huge downer for people who don't enjoy arguing.

I hope that Halo knows that the bng harmony is struggling because of this heavy discourse on the board. On the bright side, if saintsfan runs everybody off then Guido will quit posting and he can have the place all to himself.

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Old 02-21-2022, 01:03 PM   #9
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Originally Posted by Rugby Saint II View Post
I blocked saintsfan some time ago because of this incessant crap! Now I have to see posters quoting him and asking for him politely to "Let It Go". Unfortunately, he would rather run everybody off rather than stopping his aggressive agenda against other members. I spend less and less time on here because of this nonstop discourse which is a huge downer for people who don't enjoy arguing.

I hope that Halo knows that the bng harmony is struggling because of this heavy discourse on the board. On the bright side, if saintsfan runs everybody off then Guido will quit posting and he can have the place all to himself.
Did you block speedo while he was relentlessly harassing other members? Tell the board about it? Step in to defend any of people he attacked? Tasked with keeping the peace here? Read every post in every thread? Tried sending speedo PMs asking him to stop? React at all to the race baiting?

No?

Well then, perhaps you should just keep on doing what you're doing and leave the rest to me...Thanks in advance...

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Originally Posted by saintfan View Post
Did you block speedo while he was relentlessly harassing other members? Tell the board about it? Step in to defend any of people he attacked? Tasked with keeping the peace here? Read every post in every thread? Tried sending speedo PMs asking him to stop? React at all to the race baiting?

No?

Well then, perhaps you should just keep on doing what you're doing and leave the rest to me...Thanks in advance...

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