Holy F**** S*!!!!!!!!!!!!

SaintFanInATLHELL · 02-06-2022, 08:34 PM

Originally Posted by saintfan

Answer: Speedo stops race-baiting and stops attacking people. Sadly little speedo is still in denial mode. Still refuses to admit what he's done and clearly has no plans to stop on his own. So I'm his target. I'm his nemesis. I'm the diversion that stops him from running people away. I'm the one he can attack - I'm the one he can use to try to divide the board.

Ignoring NPD works fine unless you have to see them every day. In that case you have to draw a line in the sand and defend it to hell and back, and that is the only way.

I and others have tried ignoring him and his behavior has become increasingly worse because he is empowered in his disorder. As a moderator I have been approached by people who are tired of having this disordered man berate their every comment. Tired of him reporting their posts as the victim when he's the instigator. As a moderator I left him alone literally for years hoping that he, like some before him, just washed out and went away.

He's NOT going to use the board to feed his disorder anymore. Sure I can ignore him. I would like to suggest that if you're the one seeing all the reports he's made against others here - if you're the one getting PMd by people who want to know what gives, if you're that guy what would YOU do?

It's necessary. If speedo cared at all about this board he'd effing stop. Everybody here knows what he does. Therefore everyone here should take a stand and put a stop to this madness.

I'm not trying to make speedo a better person. That ship sailed, probably about the time he turned 4. I AM going to stop him from his attacking and race baiting. When is the last time you saw him do what is on display in this very thread to anyone other than me?

You're welcome.

I'm still confused. Stopping someone with NPD seems to be equivalent to trying to stop the virus. Since they are disordered, are they simply not capable of controlling that behavior?

Is your goal to simply make yourself the target of attack so that attacks go nowhere else?

Also as a moderator, why not use moderation as a tool to control acceptable behavior?

I understand what you want to accomplish. It just seems to me that this is the most annoying and roundabout way of trying to pull it off.

This just seems like a tactic to me where the supposed cure is worse that the supposed disease. It has folks like the OP exploding in anger over the situation. I asked the same about 10 days ago. I just don't see the point where it ticks off the masses with no other real movement.

Right or wrong, Guido is who he is. And I'm taking your word about the cause and the fact that behavior is difficult to curtail.

I'd just like to point out as a moderator, your current approach isn't very moderate. And it's clear it's going to have quite a few unintended effects if it continues in its current form.

SFIAH

02-06-2022, 08:34 PM	#1
SaintFanInATLHELL The Professor Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Lithonia, GA Posts: 2,783	Re: Holy F** S!!!!!!!!!!!!* Originally Posted by saintfan Answer: Speedo stops race-baiting and stops attacking people. Sadly little speedo is still in denial mode. Still refuses to admit what he's done and clearly has no plans to stop on his own. So I'm his target. I'm his nemesis. I'm the diversion that stops him from running people away. I'm the one he can attack - I'm the one he can use to try to divide the board. Ignoring NPD works fine unless you have to see them every day. In that case you have to draw a line in the sand and defend it to hell and back, and that is the only way. I and others have tried ignoring him and his behavior has become increasingly worse because he is empowered in his disorder. As a moderator I have been approached by people who are tired of having this disordered man berate their every comment. Tired of him reporting their posts as the victim when he's the instigator. As a moderator I left him alone literally for years hoping that he, like some before him, just washed out and went away. He's NOT going to use the board to feed his disorder anymore. Sure I can ignore him. I would like to suggest that if you're the one seeing all the reports he's made against others here - if you're the one getting PMd by people who want to know what gives, if you're that guy what would YOU do? It's necessary. If speedo cared at all about this board he'd effing stop. Everybody here knows what he does. Therefore everyone here should take a stand and put a stop to this madness. I'm not trying to make speedo a better person. That ship sailed, probably about the time he turned 4. I AM going to stop him from his attacking and race baiting. When is the last time you saw him do what is on display in this very thread to anyone other than me? You're welcome. I'm still confused. Stopping someone with NPD seems to be equivalent to trying to stop the virus. Since they are disordered, are they simply not capable of controlling that behavior? Is your goal to simply make yourself the target of attack so that attacks go nowhere else? Also as a moderator, why not use moderation as a tool to control acceptable behavior? I understand what you want to accomplish. It just seems to me that this is the most annoying and roundabout way of trying to pull it off. This just seems like a tactic to me where the supposed cure is worse that the supposed disease. It has folks like the OP exploding in anger over the situation. I asked the same about 10 days ago. I just don't see the point where it ticks off the masses with no other real movement. Right or wrong, Guido is who he is. And I'm taking your word about the cause and the fact that behavior is difficult to curtail. I'd just like to point out as a moderator, your current approach isn't very moderate. And it's clear it's going to have quite a few unintended effects if it continues in its current form. SFIAH jonnyrotten, Crusader, Rugby Saint II and 1 others like this.
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Holy F****** S***!!!!!!!!!!!!

Holy F**** S*!!!!!!!!!!!!